That's Life!

About That’s Life!

It is said, “Life is funny!”  I don’t know who said it -- maybe the same person who said “Life is short!” or “It’s a small world”.  Well, sometimes life is funny and sometimes it’s not so funny.  But it is all good!!

This Blog is about life – all of it.  I will tell you this is a Christian blog because God is the author and creator of life, and a huge part of my own life. Topics will be varied because there is so much to life – kids, pets, family, relationships, marriage, people, activities, gosh, the list goes on and on and on.   It will be interactive, so feel free to comment or request topics, and I’ll do my best to accommodate.  If I don’t know about a topic, I will be honest and may redirect you somewhere else to find what you are looking for. My desire is for you to be uplifted and encouraged and maybe even inspired.

All God's creatures have at least one thing in common, and it's called Life!! 

Let's do Life --- together. 

                                                                                            -  Miss Roxanne

About Miss Roxanne!

Before anything, I am a Christ follower. I am a wife, mother (4), grandmother (6), daughter, sister, published author, teacher, and contributing writer to a couple of local magazines. I love gardening, crafting, crochet, sewing, and I just learned to post on Instagram & TikTok, and how to knit. Oh, I love dogs, kids, and baking! And hate housework! WHEW! 

Meridian, Idaho, is where we call home. We are supposed to be retired, but for me, that's not really happening. Honestly, I will probably never truly retire. There is so much fun stuff to do and learn. And I know God still had loads for me to do and write. I just don't see myself ever sitting in a rocking chair whiling away the days. 

Our lives have been full and blessed with an occasional bump in the road. Steve and I have been married for 55 years, come August 2025. We got married young and everyone said it wouldn't last, but HA - we showed them! 

Master of the Universe

Some time ago, I posted a blog about Wonder Woman. Today’s blog focuses on another superhero. With three boys, our household was quite invested in the superhero phenomenon.

In 1983, a superhero named He-Man was introduced to households and the lives of young boys across America.  He-Man's character was the most powerful man in the universe.  He-Man goes against the evil forces of Skeletor to save the planet Eternia and protect the secrets of Castle Grayskull. However, He-Man wasn't alone; there were other "Masters of the Universe. "
 

The plot:  He-Man's true identity was Prince Adam of Eternia, the son of King Randor and Queen Marlena (an Earthling), who ruled the Kingdom of Eternia on the planet Eternia. The Sorceress of Castle Grayskull granted Prince Adam the power to transform into He-Man to combat the evil forces threatening planet Eternia.  Adam's transformation into He-Man was achieved by raising his Power Sword and shouting, "By the power of Grayskull..." Once the transformation was complete, he declared, "...I have the power!"

Here's where today's story comes in.  In 1983, the youngest of our three boys was 4 years old.  This was the same time that He-Man entered our household.  Like all young boys, both now and then, he was fascinated by the concept of a superhero. Boys seem to be wired in such a way that they believe superhero-dom is amazing and aspire to emulate these superheroes.  Our boy was no different.  "I have the power" was repeated over and over each time he jumped off a couch, tossed a basketball, rode his bike, or did just about anything.  I had to "have the power" not to say, "enough already with the 'I have the power"!!! "

 

With our son nearing 5, we thought it was time for him to start helping with the chores around the house.  One of the jobs assigned to him was bringing in the groceries. This happy-go-lucky child never minded doing chores.  He usually turned them into a game to make it fun for himself. On this particular grocery day, there was a lot to bring in.  I hadn't shopped in a while, and we had a big family.  Dragging in bag after bag eventually became rather boring for a rambunctious 5-year-old.  He got to the last bag and headed back to the car for one final item.  He reached into the trunk, gingerly grabbed the gallon of milk, and jubilantly marched into the house, filled with renewed energy that the job was done.  As he stepped into the living room, he was overtaken with enthusiasm. With one hand, he lifted the gallon of milk as high above his head as he could and shouted, "I have the power - He-Man!"  In a flash, I turned to look at him and saw the gallon of milk held over his head.  I was speechless, probably holding my breath, maybe with one eye closed and the other squinting.  He held it there for a second or two and then promptly dropped the plastic gallon of milk, which, of course, broke and there was spilt milk everywhere - on the walls, on the ceiling, all over the carpet, on the front door, on the furniture, ev-ry-where!!!!!

What do you say when something like that happens?  Quite honestly, I don't remember what I said, but I'm fairly certain it started out with his name in capital letters - meaning - very loudly!  Have you ever smelled old milk? Ewwwww! Moms, am I right? So, we had to put the rest of the day on hold and clean everything right away.  Well, we got through it - cleaned the carpets and furniture and washed the walls, ceiling, door, etc. And we all lived to tell about it.

That son will be turning 46 years old next week, and we still tease him about the milk incident by holding up one arm and shouting, "He-Man!!!" Ah, the memories!

The cool thing about this story is that now, he truly is a He-Man.  He has a wife and two daughters who adore him. He was a Marine who served our country against evil forces overseas, and he is currently a paramedic firefighter serving and protecting his community. He loves the Lord, the true Master of the Universe. All of this adds up to being a "He-Man" in my book!

I believe each of us has the power to be a "He-Man" by serving and caring for one another and those in need.  In fact, the true Master of the Universe, in His Word, says, "A new commandment I give to you: that you love one another; just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another. " (John 13:34). Ephesians 4:32 calls us to be kind and compassionate to one another. Furthermore, we have the Holy Spirit's power in times of trouble or when evil forces attack.

 

One of my favorite verses is found in Ezekiel 36:26-27, NIV. It reads, “I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws.”

The Master of the Universe, God Almighty, calls us to be He-Men and He-Women. He has promised to help us to be just that. God’s Son, Jesus, modeled this for us. Our weapons and armor are described in Ephesians 6:10-18. We have everything we need to be the kind of He-Men and Women that God wants us to be. In this day, we must be prepared to stand firm. We achieve this by reading the Word, praying regularly, attending a Bible-believing church, teaching our children to be the He-Men and He-Women of the future, and taking action to give, serve, love, help, and listen, all with kindness, love, and compassion. I challenge and encourage you in this.

 

Now, I dare you to shout aloud, "By the power of the Lord and Holy Spirit, I have the power!" Go ahead. Say it! Because you do. You have the power. It comes from knowing the Master of the Universe. Find the "He-Man or He-Woman" inside you, stand firm, or take action, and be a "He-Man" for the Lord!

  

Welcome!!

Welcome to the That's Life Blog.

Thank You for joining me on this journey called LIFE!  

I hope to meet you where you are in some small way.  My desire is to touch your heart and make you smile through my words and pictures.  I hope to encourage, uplift and give insight by sharing what I have learned, observed, and experienced during my life. I have lived a lot of life so I have a lot to share. But I am also still learning, so I admit, I definitely don't know it all. 

I think, I see, I reflect, and I write.

If as you read, we meet in a place of familiarity we can nod our heads and say to each other, Yes! That's life!!  

Together, we can build a safe place to rest in the life we have been given, to learn and grow, and to become who we were made to be.  So I would encourage you to invite a friend to the That's Life Blog and share the posts on your Social Media. Follow it, engage in it, comment (I will answer.), and be a part of discussions because almost everything is better when you do it with someone, right? We really are better and stronger together.  

Typically posts will go up each Friday before noon MTN time. This is a clean Blog - no foul language, no violence, no judgment, no inappropriate innuendos, and most often suitable for both men and women.

Happy reading my friends!!  See you next Friday!  Let's do life together.

A Time to Plant

A Time to Plant

1 Corinthians 3:6-8 "I planted the seed, Apollos watered it, but God made it grow. So neither he who plants nor he who waters is anything, but only God, who makes things grow. The man who plants and the man who waters have one purpose, and each will be rewarded according to his own labor."

These verses are rich with meaning for Christians.

First, they remind us of the privilege and responsibility we have to plant seeds of faith in the lives of the people we know who don't know Jesus. However, what happens with those seeds is not in our control. God controls that. In this passage, Paul clearly says, "God makes the seeds grow." That takes some of the load off our shoulders, but we are still responsible for planting and watering those seeds.

Speaking of seeds, did you ever look at the seeds inside an apple? Good question, right? Well, when you cut an apple through the middle instead of from top to bottom, you will see a cool little star inside of it. Amazing, huh?! Each section of the star houses an apple seed. We can count the seeds inside that apple, but not how many apples will come from each seed.

Think about that in terms of the people in your neighborhood, workplace, or even your family. Here's where I am going with this - when our children see us reading our Bible, that's planting seeds. When people see and hear us pray in a restaurant, that's planting seeds. When we decline an invitation that would keep us from church, that's planting seeds. When people hear us give God credit for a blessing, that's planting seeds. When you tell someone about something God has done in your life, that's watering the seeds you have planted. When you share what you learned at church, that's watering the seeds. When you praise or thank God where those seeds were planted, that's watering the seeds. Someone else may even come along and water the seeds that you planted. We don't know what God has planned for each person we plant a little seed of faith in, but we do know that He will grow the seeds that we plant. And the desire would be that many apples come from each seed. I think they call that 'spreading the gospel.'

That's why it is so important to keep planting and to keep watering. So that God can keep doing what He does in the lives of those who don't know Him. 

I think back on all my years of teaching Sunday School and teaching in Christian Schools, and I often wondered if I made a difference in the spiritual lives of my students. Come to find out over the years, so very many of them came to know the Lord and are still steadfast, firm believers. I was planting seeds of faith in their lives all those many years ago, but God, in His timing, caused them to grow. We don't always get to see the results of our seed planting, and some take root and some don't, just like in a garden, but our call is to be obedient to the Gardener and just plant seeds and keep them watered.

So, each time you see a flower bloom, let it be a sweet reminder of the tremendous privilege we have to tell others that Jesus is alive, He loves them, and wants to have a relationship with them. We can pray for our friends and family that God will grow the little seeds we have planted into a faith that is as alive as Jesus. All that from one little seed. Imagine that!

You loosen the soil around people's hearts by being present in their lives, planting little seeds here and there, and watering them with your words and actions and a good dose of prayer. God will do the rest in His time, and we trust Him in that. But who knows that you might plant a seed in the next Billy Graham. Someone told Billy about Jesus. It could happen!

Pray that God will give you wisdom and consistency as you plant seeds of faith in the lives of those around you. Pray that He will grow those seeds so that many apples come from them. It's time to get out our gardening tools, my friends, and start planting.

Blessings. 

 

The Journey

We are all on a journey.  We each begin that journey in different places. Some in a Christian home, some in a not-so-Christian home.  Either way, I think everyone has an expectation of what their life might look like now and in the future. How many of you as a kid, picked out what your wedding dress would look like? I did. I still have the picture I tore from the newspaper - that's because I save everything - anyway...guess what -- I eloped and my wedding dress was actually an old homecoming dress from a homecoming I went to with someone that I was not marrying. Lame, right...but, I still have that dress, too.

Here's what I've learned. When we experience disappointment, "read the story". The story of how we met, how we got married, all the fun, excitement, anticipation, stress... "read the story" of 52 years of marriage, four kids, three miscarriages, six grandkids, eight dogs, seven homes in three states, time spent in ICU for a severe TBI, COVID, and on and on. Read the story.

Here's another type of story. The Road to Emmaus - Luke 24:13-35

Two guys were walking along the road, they were talking about all that happened, they were disappointed, Jesus was gone. As they were walking, Jesus himself walked up beside them but they didn't recognize Him. He came to meet them where they were. Jesus wanted to know what they were talking about. And they told Him all that happened to Jesus - vs 21 says "We had hoped that He was the one who was going to redeem Israel."  There it is - disappointment. Jesus called them out on it. In verses 25 & 26 Jesus calls them foolish and slow of heart. THEN -- Jesus tells them the story. (Vs 27)

Jesus was going to leave them and they urge Him to stay, so He did. As soon as Jesus started to break bread to eat, their eyes were opened and they recognized Him. Then Jesus disappeared. In disappointment, reading the story opens our eyes to the good. Reading the story reminds us of the trials that strengthened us. Reading the story of our lives helps us remember who is in control.

I love this next part, vs 32 - "They said to each other, "Did not our hearts burn within us while He talked to us on the road, while He opened to us the scriptures?" Their hearts were aglow because they were hearing the story. Hearing or reading the story rekindles the fire that once burned in us. What fire that once burned inside of you has lost its flame? Love? Happiness? Contentment? Faith?

The same idea can be applied to our Christian walk. Read the story. Open your Bible. Reading the story rekindles the fire from when we first accepted Christ. In disappointment, read the story. In doubt, read the story. In a state of confusion, read the story. In a season of waiting, read the story. In a season of wondering why or how, read the story. In sadness, in fear, read the story and let it refuel the fire that once burned inside of you. 

Joshua 1:9 speaks directly to what this message is about..."Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid, do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." 

My encouragement to you is to "read the story" and be reignited. The journey begins and ends with the story.

 

Reflections

Reflections

Did you ever stop and think about how things are connected? I mean, how everything, literally everything, is just sort of entwined together somehow. How does that happen? How did that happen? By accident? I think not! And what does it all mean for me and for you, for everyone? Whoa!! That's a lot to think about.

It's interesting to discover that every single person has their own special, one-of-a-kind story. No two people have had the exact same situations to deal with. No two people have had all of the same experiences. Oh, you may have shared a similar experience here and there with someone, but I don't believe for a minute that anyone else has shared every single thing you or I have experienced. Why? - She asks with a perplexed look on her face.

The answer - God planned it that way. (Psalm 139:13-16) God is a Creator, an artist, a genius at making things amazing and wonderful and beautiful and, and...different! He is by no stretch of the imagination boring. Think how boring and dull it would be if we were all the same, having the same life experiences, the same thoughts, the same inclinations, the same perceptions, the same ideas, wants, and needs. Yeeesh! Now that would be boring! Psalm 40:5 speaks directly to what I am talking about here. Scripture calls what God has done "wonders". Let's look at the whole verse. "Many O Lord my God are the wonders You have done. The things You planned for us no one can recount to You; were I to speak and tell of them, they would be too many to count". The wonders He planned for each of us are too many to count. Nope, I do not read boring or sameness in any of those words.

Since we are all created distinctively, I think it is safe to assume that we are not gifted alike either. You may have a way with a paintbrush, whereas I can paint a picture with words. My friend, Lindsey, is gifted at being able to quiet and redirect any, and I mean any, fussy little one. Me, not so much. Give me a preschooler any day. My husband can meet someone for the very first time and instinctively and immediately knows their character. (So, watch out, you characters!! He's got your number.) That is not a gift everyone has. It takes some of us much longer to figure it out, sometimes with devastating results. God designed us so that we complement each other. My weakness may be your strength. The bottom line is that we were made to work together in harmony using our gifts and talents for the good of one another. When I was a Children's Ministry Director, the verse we chose for the ministry was 1 Peter 4:10: "Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God's grace in its various forms."  This verse speaks to harmony, sharing, teamwork, and variety. That means sharing what God gave you personally in the way of gifting and faithfully using it to bring Him glory and help your fellow man/woman/child. (Ephesians 4:11-13) In a word, service. Are you being called to serve someone? Answer the call.

We have the best model of this in Jesus. He was a servant. He came to love and serve others. He served those in His immediate circle and everyone who came to Him then and now, the leper (Luke 17:11-19), and you and I, for example. We go to Him seeking help, seeking love, and He is there! So, how can I love like Jesus loved? How can I love others like God loves me? John 3:16 says, "For God so loved the world that He gave His one and only Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish but have eternal life." YIKES! That is a tall order. That is a huge kind of love. Sacrificial. Overwhelming. Powerful. Unconditional. This is a question that we need to ask ourselves daily: What can I do today to bless someone and show God's love to someone else? My thought is, I must first have eyes to see the needs and next the wherewithal and desire to respond and act upon them. Seeing and wanting to do something about it are two completely different things. However, we need both. Understand, there are some things we just can not fix. Only God can fix some of the things we encounter. But many times, we do have the power to do something about whatever it is, even if it is as small as giving a hug, a smile, a look, or a word of support.

Having eyes to see, a heart to do, and hands that act are signs of growth in a person's faith walk. Growth comes in many forms, however. How does your garden grow? How do you build your relationship with God in such a way that it grows and gets stronger every day? Prayer. (Colossians 4:2) Reading, memorizing, and studying God's Word. (Psalm 1:2, Joshua 1:8) Worship. (Colossians 3:16) Acts of service. These are all great ways to build that relationship. Jesus gives us a visual of how we build our relationship with Him by keeping close to Him. He uses a grapevine as a metaphor for our relationship with Him. John 15:4a references "abide in me" in the ESV translation. Meaning abide in Christ. NIV states, "Remain in me and I will remain in you." It goes on to say, "No branch can bear fruit all by itself; it must remain on the vine." This is a very clear picture of how we are to stay close to Jesus, as close as a branch attached to a tree, or in this case, a vine. This is not a once-and-done relationship. The word 'remain' or 'abide' implies it is constant. I would even go so far as to say, to me, it implies this will be a lifelong process of continually nurturing and growing my faith. But how do we do that? In any relationship, wouldn't you agree that the way to build and strengthen it is through communication? Prayer is simply communicating with God. It is a two-way deal. You talk, He listens. He talks, you listen. Colossians 3:16 gives us a hint as to what God is looking for from us. "Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God." Know the Word. Use the Word, Sing, Pray, and Stay close. Communicate!

So here are a couple of takeaways that will guide you as you reflect:

Takeaway #1: God loved you before you were born. He set out a specific, wonderful plan for your life. He made you special and unique. One-of-a-kind! You can rest in who God made you to be and trust that you are exactly the person, experiencing exactly what He wanted you to for His purposes.

Takeaway #2: God loves you so much, He blessed you with unique gifts so you could /would use and share them with others.

Takeaway #3: God loves you unconditionally. He proved His love by sending Jesus. Our response should be that of undying love in return by serving Him and our fellow man.

Takeaway #4: God loves you and wants to spend time with you. His desire is that you want to spend time with Him, too. Communicate.

Did you happen to notice a trend in all those takeaways? Yep, me, too! My very first sentence inquired of you, "Did you ever stop and think about how things are connected?"

What I hope you walk away with from this article is that everything, from the very beginning to this day and forevermore, can be connected to God's love for you and me and every single person alive. And that, dear readers, will never change.

I close with words from Paul's letter to the Romans found in Romans 8: 35-39 because in reflecting, and searching for meaning in the questions we often ask ourselves; we can claim this truth as our own and find freedom, security, and connection to each other and to God in the words.

"Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall trouble or hardship or persecution or famine or nakedness or danger or sword? As it is written: "For your sake we face death all day long; we are considered as sheep to be slaughtered." No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through Him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord."

Can I get an Amen to that!?

 

The Navigator

When my husband and I travel out of town by car, I usually take on the role of navigator. Although we often rely on GPS, I provide a heads-up before the annoying voice from our phone does. My husband wants to know how many miles until the next turn-off and which direction we will be turning long before we reach it. 

A couple of months ago, in a spur-of-the-moment decision, we decided to take a 1,400-mile trip to surprise the family for our granddaughter’s birthday.  Now, you must understand that we are NOT spur-of-the-moment people by any stretch of the imagination. We are planners.

 

On a Thursday late afternoon, I was talking on the phone with our son. He mentioned that they were having a birthday party for our soon-to-be 25-year-old granddaughter on Saturday. As I hung up the phone, a wild idea crossed my mind: wouldn’t it be fun to surprise her and show up at her party? I enthusiastically shared the idea with my husband, who was game for an adventure. He immediately got on the computer and printed directions and a map. I shot a quick text to our son-in-law about our plans so someone knew what we were doing and insisted that he keep it a secret. We scurried around packing our bags, locating items we absolutely needed to bring for our family, and preparing just-in-case winter weather items like blankets, boots, and coats, plus pillows, things to do in the car, such as knitting, books to read, and my computer, and plenty of snacks. Having packed the car ahead of our estimated departure time so we could just hop in and head out, we looked at everything we had packed and burst out laughing. The backseat and the trunk were jam-packed, as if we were heading out for three weeks instead of three days. But we were ready for literally anything!

 

Heading to bed early, we set our alarms for 4:00 A.M. Printed directions and map in hand, we were on the road by 5:00 A.M. Still close to town, the driving was clear sailing. As we ventured further out of town, into the more rural areas, it was extremely dark, there were no lights except for the blinding headlights of oncoming cars. Road signs became harder to read without light, as they were covered in winter dirt and dew-laden. But onward, we drove with determination, not knowing that many miles back, we had unintentionally taken a right instead of a left. One hour. Two hours. “Hmmm? This doesn’t look right,” the driver said. “I think we were supposed to turn back there,” the navigator replied. But on we drove. Eventually, we came across a conveniently located Chevron station. “Let me see that map,” the driver said. “Yep, we are heading in the wrong direction,” he confirmed, “it looks like we are headed back where we came from.” We continued along the same route until we came upon Route 20.  Wait….what???? Pulling over to the side of the road, my husband looked at me and said, “Well, we have been driving for over two and a half hours. It looks like we looped back on a different route because we are now twenty minutes from home. What do you want to do?” “Let’s go home!” the navigator responded. So, we did.

There are so many lessons in this story. Lesson one: We should have used our GPS. We should have trusted the expert in directions, Google’s annoying voice. Lesson two: We justified our fiasco by thinking that maybe God was protecting us from something bad that might happen while we were on the road. In His mercy, He acted on what He knew lay ahead. That could be true. He’s like that! But more importantly, lesson three: I hadn’t stopped to pray about the trip beforehand. I hadn’t asked the real Navigator if we should go or not, and to give us directions. I hadn’t asked the real Navigator to show us the way. Even when we realized we were lost and heading in the wrong direction, I did not turn to the real Navigator. It wasn’t until my husband asked me, “What do you want to do?” that it struck me. I needed to go home; my plan was not God’s plan. 

Proverbs 16:9 “In his heart a man plans his course, but the Lord determines his steps.

Proverbs 19:21 “Many are the plans in a man’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails.”

God’s plans and purposes for us are always the best. He is the true expert in directions. It is in our best interest to consult the true Navigator. Even when we forget, His plans will prevail. There is freedom in knowing that we can trust Jesus to guide and direct us in every situation. When we rely on Jesus instead of our own judgment, we can be worry-free and won’t get lost on dark roads or take wrong turns.

In John 14:6a, Jesus said, “I am the way.” He is the only road we can follow. We can trust Jesus to lead us, provide direction, and give us a thumbs-up or thumbs-down for everything we do or plan to do. I am so grateful that Jesus possesses infinite patience and wisdom as we travel this road called life.

Think about this: 

What plans are you making that you should be consulting the Navigator about?