This is a Blog post from several years ago, but I find myself thinking about it again since my mom will be turning 94 years old in just a few months. She uses a walker now but she is still as sharp as a tack. She claims doing crossword puzzles and drinking one glass of wine every day keeps her mind sharp. I believe her. Following is an experience from my mom's life that inspired me on so many levels at the time and does to this day. I hope it inspires you, too.
Original Blog Date: October 23, 2014
Those of you that were regularly following my blog probably noticed that the last entry was on September 21st. Part of the reason is that my mom, who is going to be 86 years old next week, fell and broke her hip just 3 days after my last entry which was September 24th, 2014 which also happens to be my birthday.
As the oldest child and the only daughter, I was devastated. First, because she was alone when it happened. Second, because I hadn't called her in a week - truth be told it may have been longer. Third, because I live 430 miles away from her. And the list goes on and on.
To alleviate any concern: My brother came to her rescue when she finally got to a phone but it was a harrowing experience for her. God made her of tough stuff, however. My daughter sent my mom a card with the definition of a "Tough Cookie" and it fits her to a tea - a person who is able to deal with difficult situations and not be easily defeated, frightened, or upset. She didn't give up when it happened and she hasn't given up after the surgery. While God made her of tough stuff, He also threw in a little stubbornness. She nor anyone who knows her will deny that. Her Physical Therapist wishes the younger people he works with would have even half her determination. Needless to say, she is doing great!
Back to the topic...
For the last month, I have been traveling back and forth. My husband came with me (actually he drove me - he's so good!) on one occasion and I am going out there again in 2 weeks. And, since it happened, I have spoken to her nearly every day (I've missed only 2). Sometimes, I speak to her multiple times a day.
So, here's my question: Why does it take a devastating incident to make us see that we have taken someone for granted?
All too often we assume the person will be there tomorrow. When in fact we don't know that for certain. Only God knows that. We really can't assume anything because not only do we have no control over what happens but we don't make the plan. God controls it all. And God makes the plan. News Flash: He doesn't consult us nor fill us in about His plan either. While this may seem to put us at a slight disadvantage, I think just the opposite. God's way makes it easy. It leaves no doubt that we need to cherish every moment. Being in the dark about what may come tomorrow should force us to act and make the most of today.
I can't even tell you how much richer my relationship is with my mom since I started calling her every day. And this bond has expanded to include my brothers whom I rarely spoke to. Once the actions of showing and expressing love and appreciation seep in as God intended for families, the harmony it creates is like a soft comforting lullaby.
So there you have it - the lesson for the day: Please don't take people you care about for granted. No excuses!! Love them with your actions every day! Call someone you love! This is pleasing to God and how He intended families and relationships to operate. What are you waiting for - go make that call!
"Above all clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony."
Colossians 3:14
As the oldest child and the only daughter, I was devastated. First, because she was alone when it happened. Second, because I hadn't called her in a week - truth be told it may have been longer. Third, because I live 430 miles away from her. And the list goes on and on.
To alleviate any concern: My brother came to her rescue when she finally got to a phone but it was a harrowing experience for her. God made her of tough stuff, however. My daughter sent my mom a card with the definition of a "Tough Cookie" and it fits her to a tea - a person who is able to deal with difficult situations and not be easily defeated, frightened, or upset. She didn't give up when it happened and she hasn't given up after the surgery. While God made her of tough stuff, He also threw in a little stubbornness. She nor anyone who knows her will deny that. Her Physical Therapist wishes the younger people he works with would have even half her determination. Needless to say, she is doing great!
Back to the topic...
For the last month, I have been traveling back and forth. My husband came with me (actually he drove me - he's so good!) on one occasion and I am going out there again in 2 weeks. And, since it happened, I have spoken to her nearly every day (I've missed only 2). Sometimes, I speak to her multiple times a day.
So, here's my question: Why does it take a devastating incident to make us see that we have taken someone for granted?
All too often we assume the person will be there tomorrow. When in fact we don't know that for certain. Only God knows that. We really can't assume anything because not only do we have no control over what happens but we don't make the plan. God controls it all. And God makes the plan. News Flash: He doesn't consult us nor fill us in about His plan either. While this may seem to put us at a slight disadvantage, I think just the opposite. God's way makes it easy. It leaves no doubt that we need to cherish every moment. Being in the dark about what may come tomorrow should force us to act and make the most of today.
I can't even tell you how much richer my relationship is with my mom since I started calling her every day. And this bond has expanded to include my brothers whom I rarely spoke to. Once the actions of showing and expressing love and appreciation seep in as God intended for families, the harmony it creates is like a soft comforting lullaby.
So there you have it - the lesson for the day: Please don't take people you care about for granted. No excuses!! Love them with your actions every day! Call someone you love! This is pleasing to God and how He intended families and relationships to operate. What are you waiting for - go make that call!
"Above all clothe yourselves with love, which binds us all together in perfect harmony."
Colossians 3:14
